ANOTHER WAY TO CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT SEX: EMOTIONAL CHEATING (BTW, CHEATING IS CHEATING).
What a shock for some people it will be?! Yeah believe me, many people are cheating on their partner without sex, with the brand new cheating technique known as “emotional cheating” (dunno if it’s new but for me it is brand new).
I was wandering on the internet and found an article about emotional cheating. I first thought what was that thing, once more it would be a crap and I’ll be losing time reading it but it happen that the article was clear about a new cheating form that was wide spread and which people were doing without themselves feeling guilty or whatever.
What is emotional cheating? As the name implies, it is all about emotion and not physical affairs, it refers to the people connection to others outside their couple. An example will be that a guy will have a very very very very good friend (sex=female) and will often share thing with her. What’s the fuss about it will you say?! The fuss is that you won’t allow your girlfriend to have such a good friend (sex=male) and you know why, because you think it’s too close for you. Just think about your girlfriend having a very good friend that will come nearer to her face and will whisper in her ear and both will laugh but remember, no contact. Will you still allow this “friendship”? This is what emotional cheating (affairs) are all about.
You are still not convince that it is an affair. Just ask yourself whether you’ll do the same thing if your partner was in front of you, would you whisper in her ears, take her and just do a massage to her. You assume all this is friendship but no, it’s just something above friendship. Being too close to someone, like in an office might be the reason why this happens and with internet and their dating website, you are more subject to having emotional affairs.
Having an emotional affair?! Why would you know you are having one, just ask yourself if your partner knew about this personal meeting or party you are having, she’ll agreed about it. Or whatever you are saying to the person, will your partner agree?! Or the worst one, you are sharing things with the person you are not sharing with your partner and sometime you think about him/her?! If you answer yes to any of these questions, I’m sad to say you are cheating on your partner.
If you are in this situation, just stop it right now. There is no way of handling this kind of friendship and your relation with your partner, just stop it or it will destroy your relationship. And secondly, just assess yourself and ask yourself why you did it. Get the reason for this and change the situation, is this because of lack of communication or common activities, solve these problem and love your partner as before.
I hope this post helped you and good news, you can take the decision not to cheat, either physically or emotionally.
Cheerio