HOW TO EASILY MAKE UP AFTER A FIGHT IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER? NO NEED FOR FLOWERS.

One thing I hate the most is to have a fight with my partner and I think everybody hates it. It is simply not a good thing to have in a couple. Moreover, having fight is simply not a good thing and with the one you love, it’s simply worst than all. But even if you have a fight with your partner, there’s something better than this, it is the reconciliation. We’ll talk more about reconciliation next time but for the time being, we’ll focus on how to make up after a fight.

A simple true technique about making up after a fight is to stay in silence and let the tension calm down. I’ve learned something is thatsilence is the best lawyer for someone who feel at fault. Suppose you were talking about something sensible and a fight started, believe me, give time to time and time to her. Do not talk for some time (say 5 minutes to 15 minutes) and you’ll see that after this, if you talk to her, everything will be fixed up by itself.

Now come the harder part: What to do during these minutes in silence? Try to ask yourself whether the reason of the fight are legitimate, who is at fault and whether it is not you. In a fight, we always think we are not the one at fault but if we take time to think about it, more than once we are the one who is guilty. So, take some time and examine the reasons for the fight and if you are at fault, say sorry or if you are not at fault… say sorry even so (because you entered the fight).

I hope you got the technique to make up the fight easily. The purpose of staying in silence is to allow self-auditing. So take time to have good time and go quick when it concerns fight…

Cheerio everybody…