How to give the perfect gift?

I was watching a movie (listening would be better because I wasn’t in front of the T.V.) when I heard about a girl telling her friend that her boyfriend doesn’t love him much because he gave her a hand made gift (with clay) but the girl offered a $50 necklace to the boy. One important issue was raised in what the girl said; how to give the perfect gift?

There are two types of gift; the “surprise gift” and the “I’m waiting for it gift”.The surprise gift is the easiest one because it is surprise and a surprise is always good. An example, you drive home late and stops to a florist and get her some flower, it will definitely make her feel happy (or suspicious because “man”, the old kind of man don’t offer surprise gift unless they made some fault). For teens, passing by her favourite fast food and get her what she really really likes is enough. Surprise gift are the best thing you can do for the one you love.

The second one are “I’m waiting for it gift” who are the most difficult to offer because you got to buy her (or eventually him) what she is waiting for. What is she waiting for? You will have to find out whether it is the earring you saw when driving back home, the home she sigh every time you drives in front of it or some spare time for you and her to be together? In this case you will have to ask her question little by little to know what she wants.
One thing you can do is to show her one thing and watch her reaction; if she is delighted by the house you saw her, this is the perfect gift but if she has no reaction in front of the necklace and earing, better find another thing.

About giving the perfect gift is that you have to find something special for her, bear in mind that he/she is the perfect one, try only to amaze her by doing something she and that you didn’t even know you could do for her.

For now, I’ll say goodbye but keeps on watching her reaction, this is how you’ll know what to give her.