SATURDAY THOUGHT NO. 1: HOW DOES SHE(HE) KNOW YOU LOVE HER(HIM)? DO YOU SHOW HER(HIM)?

Yesterday I heard a song which lyrics was “How does she know you love her? Do you show her?“. It might appear odd to you but the question is : “Do we show the person we love that we love them?”.

I was reading an article on a popular website where 8 women shared their cheating experience (I’m being cynic) and the reason why they cheated on their partner. Once of story I’ve noted was from a woman who said that after 3 years of dating her man, passion disappeared; she felt that the man she was dating did love her but he was not passionate.

There is a point in the sentence used by the girl; he loved me but she did not feel passion from the guy. Did the guy love her?! DID THE GUY SHOW THE GIRL THAT SHE LOVED HER?!

Let’s come back to the song I mentioned earlier (it is from the film “Il était une fois” from Walt Disney, the French version). The girl performing the song drew a list of thing the guy should do to show the girl he still loves her and to show passion instead of “old flat” love (though I prefer love to passion, it last longer). Do you take her out for dinner? Do you give her flower? Do you tell her she is beautiful? Do you smell her hairs without she notices (she will notice but will make as if she doesn’t notice. Don’t this too often, it will sound weird)? What do you clearly do to show her that you love her?

We often seeks from our partner proof that she loves us but how about showing her that we love her firstly, her proof that she loves us will follow then. (by the way, IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE, YOU WON’T HAVE TO PRODUCE PROOF OF LOVE, LOVE IS SELF-SUFFICIENT AND PROOF OF LOVE DOESN’T EXIST, LOVE BEARS ITSELF AS PROOF).

So for men and women show says that their partner are no more passionate, just show a little passion and your partner will follow and you’ll both cheerio.