WHEN YOU LOVE HER/HIM, PLEASE COMMUNICATE. THE ART OF BETTER COMMUNICATION.

I’ve seen just many couple who were destined to be together broke because of small and silly problems. I don’t know if you realised how many couple in your surroundings or your relatives fails. And very often, it is because of one simple thing that is communication. People simply don’t communicate enough.

“Can you please give me a cup of tea?!”… No answer from the wife or “How was your day?” and no answer from the husband. Are there communication problem only between wife and husband?! Between two persons dating too there’s communication problems. How many time did you call him and when he didn’t answer you were very angry with him but you didn’t know his boss was just behind him and he couldn’t answer your call?! Did you give him time to explain himself. That’s apply also to guy who are too quick to imagine things when their partner don’t answer the phone.

Have you ever faced the situations above. There are no secret or template answer for these situation but let’s take an example and I’ll show you how this could have been changed. She asked you something and you don’t answer, she can say once more but like this: “Dear, how was your day?! You’re tired” or you should have said “Darling, can you please give me a cup of tea?!”. What is the real difference is that if she/he heard you the first time but was not in mood for answering, just adding “Dear” or “Darling” will show to your partner that you are keen to communicate and perhaps she/he will tell you more about what happened? The secret of the above is better communication. In most cases, people should have started to mumbleor shout but this isn’t good communication. Better communication starts when you show you are keen to communicate, your partner will follow, 100% sure of that.

Better communication reside on the aspect that one of the partner wants to enable the communication channel to be activated between the two. If better communication is created, the couple will not fail. Because if each time because of simple thing there are fight, the couple will never resist but if better communication and understanding is created in the couple, the couple is sure to last forever … and cheerio too.